Having to practice some serious self-love mantras today as I wear my new shorts out into public.
"I am not ‘too fat’ for any clothing style. I do not need to cover my body up for any reason other than warmth or sun protection. Cellulite and fat are just skin, and I have as much of a right as anyone else to show my skin." (at Palm springs, CA)
Lately, I’ve found myself appalled at the derogatory language I use on a daily basis without even realizing it is derogatory.
That movie was so lame.
Woah, this line to Inn-N-Out is crazy.
Her outfit is totally insane.
I’m ashamed that – as someone who has bastioned the use of “gay” to mean homosexual, fabulous, happy or any of its actual definitions instead of an insult, and who quit using…
There is a sharp pain in my right side and I refuse to go to the doctor about it.
Here is why:When I was 7, I went to my first fat doctor.
I remember sitting there naked with my father who had brought me in and having these two older men of power judge my young, female body in a way that felt like such a violation of my whole being.
The doctor talked to my father, around me, asking why one of my…
Taxes are a pain in the ass, but like it or not, they’re due today for Americans. If you’re one of the lucky people who got tax refunds (I owe this year – being self-employed is not always sunshine and porn), here are some suggestions for what to do with that extra cash.1. Save it.
Seriously. To me, one of the sexiest things anyone can do is plan for the future and be fiscally responsible. Here…
Catalyst Con East was March 14-16 and, true to the theme of the conference, many conversations about sexuality were sparked.
I spoke three times: once as a panelist on the opening keynote, once as a moderator presenter for the The Business of Blogging About Sex workshop and once as a moderator for the discussion Queering the Law: Important Issues Beyond Gay Marriage.
Very excited to be a keynote…
Yesterday, I was invited onto HufPost Live to discuss what America gets wrong about sex. Twenty minutes weren’t nearly enough to cover the topic, but I think we did a pretty good job considering our time restraint.
For more on the article and the interview, check out HuffPost Live.
I love the Tango by We-Vibe so much that I’m giving one away! So scroll down to enter to win.
Nope that’s not a new lipstick color, it’s a new vibrator!
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When I was a kid, I was literally told I would never find love because I was fat.
Well dad, I found it; on Twitter.
If it weren’t for the friends I have telling me that my weight isn’t my worth, I wouldn’t love myself like I do. #NotYourGoodFatty
— Jeni ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Burns (@nevernotdoing) April 4, 2014
Double fisting in public.
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Bianca del Rio is a bitch, and I fucking love her for it.
Years ago, while I was interning with Curve Magazine, I met this guy named Matt at a gay ski week in Tahoe.
Matt has the best smile ever.
Matt worked as a cameraman for Logo TV and was there to record the super gay shit that went down that weekend. Even though I was there with The Wind (my ex), I still spent the weekend trying to befriend…
There’s a new strip club opening this weekend in Portland, Oregon that will officially be the most hipster strip club that has ever existed.
The new club, named Loof Lirpa and located in SE Portland, will:
- Be dog friendly, with discounts for people who bring in a rescued pit-bull
- Serve vegan, gluten-free food
- Feature strippers who will also be barristers serving cold-brewed or Chemex coffee from…
I want to have lots and lots of conversations about sex, and I want to have them with experts in the field and, most importantly, with you my readers!So, I’ve decided to do a series of LIVE interviews with some of the top people in the field of sex and sexuality.
During an OnAir Hangout (a Google feature that anyone can use for free), you can anonymously or publicly ask questions of sex…
Between my frequent travels and my tendency to fall in love with people from other cities, I’ve become an expert on making long distance relationships work. So, I thought I’d combine the knowledge I’ve learned through my experiences here for you in this useful list.
These tips don’t have to just be limited to romantic relationships, they’re also helpful ways to stay connected with friends who…